Being an American is so second nature to me that it is difficult to describe how or why I define myself as one. Many of my actions and expressions are also impacted by Italian roots that distinguishing the difference is challenging.

     Looking at what an “American” is thought to be I pick up things such as unity, individualism and strength. I was raised to have respect for other cultures but at the same time I do have an immense sense of pride for being an American.

     In class and in reading the text it points out different forms of communication that every culture uses to some degree. More specifically these different types of communication include, eye contact, personal space and gestures (just to name a few). Personally, eye contact is very important to me. It bothers me when someone can’t look directly at me. I understand more and more that is sometimes not a respect issue but a cultural one. Being Italian the use of my hands seems to come with the territory. I’m very expressive when I speak, both verbally and with the use of my body. One particular thing I am not very fond of is when my personal space is invaded. The closer I am to a person the more comfortable I am with how they use my personal space. I do tend to become very uncomfortable when a stranger imposes on that.

     I believe that who one is an American has much to do with how they were raised. What was being American to their family? That simple fact is different for all families based on their background. To me it really is a way of life, a frame of mind. Being a true American is defined in how you live your life and how you embrace others who are different from yourself, that don’t quite seem to fit the mold.